There's only a day and a half until we will be sitting in the conference room at NWSC, calling our potential IPs on Skype. Ahhhhh I'm so nervous! I'm sure everything will go smoothly, I just hope we love them as much as we think we will. I'll post more about them after the meet but I wanted to jot down some of the questions/topics I want to make sure get covered during our meeting.
•At what point did you decide you wanted to have a Surrogate rather than other options for forming a family?
• What does your family think about you having a surrogate?
• What are your views on selective reduction?
• What type of deformities would you deem appropriate for abortion, if any?
• Will you be doing genetic testing on the embryos prior to transfer?
• What do you think about my desires for as natural a birth as possible?
• Will you support me in wanting to have a natural birth?
• How do you envision the birth of your baby/ies?
• Would you like me to pump breastmilk?
• What type of relationship are you wanting to have after the birth?
• How many kids do you hope to have in your life?
• What type of parent do you think you will be?
I'm sure I'll be adding to this list as the next day passes. I'm really hoping and praying that this meeting goes as well as I'm picturing it. I told a coworker that I was nervous about the meeting and he asked me "why?". Wellllll, maybe because I have to convince this family that I'm suitable to grow their children! That's pretty intimidating to me! He then very kindly reassured me that I am the happiest, most trustworthy person ever so that made me feel better haha. Wish me luck, guys! This should be exciting!
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